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_ 結婚するって本当ですか

久しぶりに友人の日記が更新されたと思ったら、なんと今年は結婚する予定だと宣ってくれた。

そうかぁ。きっと聞こえないとは思うけれど、ささやかな祝福をキミに送るよ。

おめでとう!

_ 結婚適齢期なのか?

上記の彼は高校時代の同級生なので年齢はわたしと同じ 20 代半ばといったところ。前々回のリサミでも結婚適齢期の話題になり同期の Tm 嬢と顔を見合わせて苦笑いしたのたが、わたしたちのこの年齢というのは若年結婚(?)と晩年結婚(?)の分岐点にあたるらしい。

現役で大学へ入りストレートに進級して学部卒で就職した場合には、そろそろ仕事にも慣れてきて心理的にも経済的にも家庭を持つことを考えられる年齢だし、そうでなければ仕事が面白くなって打ち込むようになるケースが多く、結果的に結婚が遅れるというのがその理由とのこと。

大学院生という「非生産階級」(と書くと何だか偉そうだが、その実は将来の見通しも立たず論文も書いていないプータローに過ぎない)のわたしにはまったく関係ない話のはずなのだが、やはり結婚適齢期に対する社会規範というのは結構根が深いものなのか、恋人とその親を含む周囲からのプレッシャーは日を追う毎に強くなってくる。

恋人とのインタラクションが 1 日 60 分くらいの電話だけなのに、「結婚」という単語を少なくとも 1 回は耳にするというのは普通のことなのだろうか……。

_ Wiki スタイルでの書き方 (2)

昨日(といっても数時間前だが)書いた日記編集画面に表示される書き方ページへのリンクの不具合が解消されていた。また、設定が Wiki スタイルになっていても、実際には tDiary スタイルで記述しないとフォーマットされなくて困っていたのだが、それも解消されている。

あれは何だったんだろう。単に新しい設定が反映されるのに時間がかかっただけなのかな?

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_ moriq (2004-01-22 06:25)

スタイルは日付ごとに設定されるらしいです。

_ yohko (2004-01-22 13:14)

なるほど、そうでしたか。その日付に関しては最初に編集した時点でのスタイルが適用され続けるということですね。ありがとうございました。

_ (2004-01-23 14:24)

結婚してしまえ。

_ kachuya (2004-01-23 15:09)

年齢で適齢期を考えるって風潮はまだあるんですかね。とっくに崩壊していると思いました。順番の規範はまだあると思っていたのですが(例:就職してから結婚、とか)。

_ (2004-01-23 15:33)

女性は30歳までにという考えが残っていると思う。順序の規範というよりも、経済状況の規範ではないのでしょうか?(夫が家計を支える)

_ kachuya (2004-01-23 16:18)

それもありそう。複数の規範が基盤になってそうだよ。<br>そういえば、「負け犬の遠吠え」っていう本が話題になっていたね。

_ yohko (2004-01-23 18:31)

交際にかかるコストが大幅に削減されるので結婚することに異存はないのですが、プータロー同士が一緒になっても生活できないので踏みとどまっています。

_ yohko (2004-01-23 18:32)

女性の結婚適齢期については「女性は年越しそば」(http://umi.no-ip.com/simple/pd200312.html#2003-12-29)が興味深いです。

_ yohko (2004-01-23 18:39)

上記の前日と前々日で触れられている「40歳の上司(既婚)の発言」も結婚適齢期に対する規範ですね。

_ kachuya (2004-01-23 20:40)

クリスマスケーキとか、年越しそばとかさんざんないわれようですね(w<br>結婚すると、関係維持のコストは減るのかな>経験者諸氏

_ (2004-01-23 20:46)

かなーり減ります,子どもができるまでは>結婚すると、関係維持のコストは減る

_ yohko (2004-01-23 23:19)

子どもができると“関係維持”のコストはどうなるのでしょうか?

_ (2004-01-24 00:16)

関係維持という点では,現象の一途をたどります。

_ kachuya (2004-01-24 02:03)

じゃあずっと減りっぱなしなんだね。

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